Monday, October 6, 2014

Random Talk

Just like when we were school students.
We began studied in a class that we know will only last for one year. 
But still, we made friends. Took a picture together and hung it in the classroom. 
We cherished every moment studying, playing and laughing together. 
Even if at the end some friends apart after the class dismissed, but we were having a good time together at that time. We did it with no regrets. 
I think it's the same thing as life, isn't it?

We met peoples, began friendships, some of them stays, and some others don't. But we have no regrets doing it. 
We fall in love, some of relationship works, some others don't. But still, we keep searching and waiting for another opportunity to fall in love for once again. 

And what i realize lately, the main point of it is not how long we will stay together. 
Nothing lasts forever.
It's a bitter truth that we all know, yet we still hoping that maybe our relationship will be last for such a long long time if it can't be forever. 
So sometimes instead of cherish every moment, every day, every second with someone we love and care about, we usually only think about what will happen in the next year, next 10 years, next 50 years about our relationship with these peoples. Expectations & plannings thats in some case leads to insecurities, disappointment, hartred and even hostility.

Life is uncertain. We don't even know what will happen tomorrow. 
So instead of having too many expections about relationship with all the peoples around us. Why don't we just cherish every moment, be grateful for this beautiful moment we are having  together, and if some relationship doesn't work, just remember that this is how life works. 
Life brought us apart, life brought us together.